Daily Archives March 26, 2012

Love Cannot Be Defined

I believe that love cannot be defined. I believe that there is no one out there in the world who is completely straight or completely gay, that there are varying degrees of attraction. There have to be, because without attraction, we would not be able to be friends with members of the same gender. Something about them ‘attracts’ us to them, and that attraction is important in basing the bond of the relationship–friendship is intimate, even if it’s not sexual. Sex is nothing but a physical thing and it requires absolutely no love or attraction for it to happen. Friendship, partnerships, marriages–those things require attraction. Sex is just sex. So no one is 100% on either side of the scale, or else no one could ever have friends or love or care about someone who was the same gender.

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