Personal Tidbits

Michy on May 15th, 2012

Look, we need to talk. I took in what happened the other day, when you looked in the mirror and said you hated yourself. Maybe you were only talking about the way you looked, I don’t know, but it sure felt a lot deeper than that when I heard it, the way I heard it. [...]

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Michy on May 14th, 2012

Once I thought tears were a weakness. Once I thought I should be ashamed of not being strong enough to control my tears. So I hid them, from everyone, and never let anyone see me cry. I had learned early on as a child that tears only made daddy angrier, made him not listen, and [...]

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Michy on May 10th, 2012

(Here’s a story I wrote based on something that my son really did back in about 2006. I wrote it back then, but I’m not sure much has changed since then…lol Enjoy. Don’t laugh too hard at his expense!) The grocery store had a good sale on some of those pre-prepared casserole dishes, like lasagna, [...]

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Michy on May 8th, 2012

I was having one of my infamous talks with Ryan, you know, the types of talks where we speculate and extrapolate on just about anything and everything, stay up late and solve all the problems of the known universe, then go to sleep and wake up the next morning and totally forget all the solutions. [...]

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Michy on May 7th, 2012

Today, Michy would like to instruct you on how to help your teen child prepare a snack for himself. We’ll take you step by step through the process, and if you skip any steps, it’s okay to come back to them and use them, or even use some of the steps more than once. Step [...]

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Michy on May 6th, 2012

Forgiveness The first thing I want to point out is what is, to me, the most important part about forgiveness: Forgiveness is not a gift you give to another, but rather something you do inside of yourself, for yourself. The other person need never know. You can choose to extend forgiveness to the other person, [...]

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Michy on May 5th, 2012

“If it’s not useful or beautiful, get rid of it!” I once took a class about personal empowerment and that is the phrase we were told. We were informed to look around our homes and to clean up the clutter. We were told, “If it’s not useful or beautiful, get rid of it!” I decided [...]

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Michy on May 4th, 2012

“I trust you.” I never knew how important those three words were. …I trust you. More important than saying I love you is knowing that in a relationship there is trust. The only thing missing from some of my past relationships was that one crucial ingredient. Trust. Bookmark to:web design

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Michy on May 4th, 2012

Contrary to popular belief, making love really has very little to do with sex. No, in fact, making love doesn’t really require sex at all. Although, adding sex to making love can really bring two powerful parts of loving together into a relationship, and that is the ultimate goal when in love with someone. But [...]

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Michy on May 3rd, 2012

(*Originally written in 2006. Well worth revisiting this one.) The dance was nice. The music was great, but a little loud. It was very hot on the dance floor, but we found a personal wind tunnel near the entrance where we sat to cool us down. And there on the dance floor was this early [...]

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